I am writing this post wedding but have had many many thoughts on this topic over the past year! Let’s start with right around the time we got engaged! So many people started with congrats and ended with “you’re going to LOVE wedding planning!” I truly thought I would since I love planning events and am a detail oriented person. However, I was very wrong… for a while I thought something was wrong with me – why didn’t I like wedding planning after so many people told me how much fun it was going to be! We were engaged for right around one year and I fully planned on doing…